May 27th, 2012
As I grow older and older,each cell in this body will be easily died and difficult to regenerate. There will be a day when I wake up with my body that fails me. I Can no longer control what I used to take for granted. Holding a spoon to feed myself become a huge struggle. One small steps feels like a miles run. Unable to take care myself for going to the bathroom will be the lowest point in human beings life. When will that happen? It can be at the age of 70?80? Or even younger? Or never happen at all because this body has left long before it decays? Does fear of decaying makes die young feels such a blessing? Its a very long short life with unexpextedly beautiful surprises. Embrace all life lessons, absorb life, love and be loved,also grateful with this body. Remember all the hapiness that had been pursued and has no regret in life as this body starts to failed will make decaying worth of living.

As I grow older and older,each cell in this body will be easily died and difficult to regenerate. There will be a day when I wake up with my body that fails me. I Can no longer control what I used to take for granted. Holding a spoon to feed myself become a huge struggle. One small steps feels like a miles run. Unable to take care myself for going to the bathroom will be the lowest point in human beings life. When will that happen? It can be at the age of 70?80? Or even younger? Or never happen at all because this body has left long before it decays? Does fear of decaying makes die young feels such a blessing? Its a very long short life with unexpextedly beautiful surprises. Embrace all life lessons, absorb life, love and be loved,also grateful with this body. Remember all the hapiness that had been pursued and has no regret in life as this body starts to failed will make decaying worth of living.

May 24th, 2012

LIFE may NOT be PERFECT but it FEELS so FABULOUS

Embrace more years ahead cause more lifetimes journey means more adventure and closer to heaven.

Enjoy this life to the fullest, don’t let other people determine the meaning of happiness in life.

LIFE may NOT be PERFECT but it FEELS so FABULOUS

My last trip 15-22 May 2012 was one of the most magnificent trip where I can say that I had Holiday Orgasm. 

It was short, only one week, but it was content, worry free, all fun and completed.

From Shopping, Partying, beautiful scenery from the top of the mountain, deep down into the ocean, red sandy beaches, hidden lakes and private waterfalls. Once in a lifetime experience living on the boat for 3 days and nights surrounded by beautiful islands, dolphins, where everyday feels like a dream. 

Waking up watching sun rises from the edge of the boat. As the boat put it’s anchor down, its time to snorkel down the sea to swim with colorful fishes and coral until reached to the beach or hike up to the top of the hills for breathtaking view from the top of the world or tracking through the forrest until we found waterfalls or lakes. Watch the sun sets from the beach or the edge of the boat then spend the night watching starry skies until we fell asleep underneath the falling stars.

It all happen so fast that it felt just like a dream. The wonderful thing was, that was not a dream, that was surreal. I have to pinch myself couple of times to let myself absorbed and enjoyed every moment of that magnificent reality that I was having. Grateful and happiness is all I can feel. 

I may not have a perfect life, I may not have everything that I wanted. But the trip made me feel that I don’t need everything that I wanted. So overwhelm with all the beauties , all the experiences, journeys and adventure. I feel so alive and wanting to go back there again. 

Yes, the trip had though me how it feels being not in a perfect life but feels this life so fabulous where all the happiness that can never go away. Being grateful, loved, forget of what I don’t have, pursue happiness, free your mind and soul, let go all worries, focus on what you want in life and life will just takes you to unexpected journey then give more than what you wished for.

It was the most epic and wonderful experience in this quarter life that I will remember for the rest of my life. If GOD do gave me 50 more years, and my grandchildren ask me what I was doing when I was 25? I had a journey to have a piece of heaven on earth and unforgettable young-adult life experience.

Embrace more years ahead cause more lifetimes journey means more adventure and closer to heaven. Enjoy this life to the fullest, don’t let other people determine the meaning of happiness in life. 

May 6th, 2012

Derawan Island Trip, East Borneo, Indonesia

22-25 March 2012

http://youtu.be/X7qT2EUj2c4

Malang Trip 27-29 April 2012

Irina-Yumai-Dian Short Sweet Escape

http://youtu.be/RQB5oJy-bpw

Solo - Yogya December 2011

Family Vacation

http://youtu.be/N3Y8wfQdo4g 

May 5th, 2012

Malang Trip 27-29 April 2012 Part 3: End of Malang Trip

Day 3

Oh well, this is the third and last day of us 3 ladies trip. We used this last day to relax and enjoy half day in the city of Malang. While Mba Yumai was having her own agenda, Mba Dian and I were experiencing around the city with becak and have culinary activities. Fortunate for us for finding last minutes hotel in the middle of the city right on the centre of public park (the Tahu Petis sold by those ladies are good).

At first we took beck to have Baso Gun, but when we got there, the place has not open yet so we went to restaurant next to it, the famous Nasi Pecel Kawi. Unfortunately I don’t remember if I had a picture taken. After The Nasi Pecel, we both go walking through Kawi street then went back to bass Gun and have ourself another portion of Baso. 

Before going back to the Hotel we stopped by a vintage restaurant that famous with the home made ice cream Toko One. It’s an adorable place, the building was vintage Dutch design with the waitress dress as the old days gentlemen, all white safari with Indonesia’n kopeah. We both ordered the Ice cream. The strawberry ice cream colored was a bit peach instead of ink, but taste quite good. 

As for the food, they keep it vintage, I’m more fond to the vintage ambiance of this place.

Well, Toko One was the end of my short journey in Malang. Flying back to Jakarta was tough, and I really do want to go back here to visit Mount Bromo again, experience Rafting in Probolinggo and going to Sendang Biru, Sempu. 

BROMO, East Java, Indonesia

April 28th 2012

Irina-Yumai-Dian short sweet escape

http://youtu.be/-oSXqJghfPM

Malang Trip 27-29 April 2012 Part 2: BROMO Mountain

Day 2, the main event of our trip: BROMO Mountain.

Let me pick up where I had left on part 1. We were at my aunt’s house to get a couple of hours to sleep. We came to her house around 8 pm and went to bed around 10pm (after having the local famous Baso joint). We were tired and I had a short good quality couple of hours sleep. We woke up around 12.30 am, get ready and picked up by our driver Pak Didik and our Bromo Guide Mas Akbar, at my aunt’s. Yep, we start the journey at the very early before dawn then we continued our sleep in the car. It was a very dark and bumpy road, I hit my head to the side of the window car several times. 

We arrived around 3.30 am. The car was parked then we changed our ride into a Jeep, red Jeep. The jeep took us to the top of the mountain and also companied by mas Akbar’s story about the history of Bromo local people called the Tengger Tribes. We got off from the jeep and went to this coffee shop to have coffee, snacks and warm our body (it was cold and windy out there). Around 4am, we walk through large stairs to go up to see the sunrise. It was still dark and so cold when we arrived at the top and we took a spot on the front. There were lots of people chasing the sunrises there at Bromo, not only local but many international tourists too. 

Unfortunately the sun was quite shy, hiding behind the clouds, so we can only see the ray when it rises. But it was beautiful. There were awesomely beautiful moments when the sky was getting lighter and brighter. Where at first we can’t see anything because of the dark, then the beautiful scenery reveal to our sight, magical.  

As for me, it was one of the panoramic view that took my breath away, heaven on earth. 

When the sun shone brightly, the weather was getting warmer and its picture time! Yipie the 3 ladies back in action. Unlike Part 1 where I attached each photos (all me! it’s my blog! hehe), there are so many great pictures at Bromo Mountain so I compiled it in a short video bellow. Well, after we took many many pictures on the top, we go back down to where the jeep parked then heading down the hill on a bumpy half hour ride jeep. 

Finally we were there, down at the Bromo Mountain ready to hike up to the volcano in the sea of sand (it’s almost like dessert but cold) or also called Caldera. There are lots of horses (and it’s shits too) and a temple that build by the Tengger Villagers for them to pray and do offering once a year.  At first I went up to the volcano of Mount Pananjakan where you can see smokes coming from inside the Mountain Panajakan (yes! it’s still active volcano and in status ALLERT where the last eruption was in january 2011, but NO! none of us afraid because of it’s beautiful panorama view!). I even remember when Mba Dian almost giving up hiking to the top, but thanks to Mba Yumai perseverance that kept telling her that she’ll regret if she gave up, Mba Dian then decided to ride the horse. I kinda tired too and my stomach gets a little tingle because I haven’t go to the morning bathroom yet (I know, too many details, sorry) so I took the horse.  There was a certain point where horse was not allowed and we had to walk on a very long and steep 200 staircases. 

Up at the top of the volcano, all of the struggle to get up there was worthy. It was beautiful looking down at the caldera, the temple, the mountain surround us and the green mount Bromo was standing right behind us. Feels like on the top of this earth! Pictures, pictures, pictures..thank’s to our young cute tour guide Mas Akbar who was willing to take pictures of us and there were quite good pictures too. After going down the long steep stairs, my stomach gets more and more tingled, so I decided to go back to our jeep with horse, while the others were walking. I got a cute white and brown horse name Malbo, 6 years old and drinks water in every 2 days. The man who guided Malbo (who according to him, Malbo is a celebrity horse because it has been used for movies and tv series shoots in Bromo) even let me ride and ran with Malbo all by myself (only for some part of the ride). Malbo then took me to the restroom where I can end my tingled tummy.

Well, it’s getting hotter on the “sea of sand” so we were going back to Malang. It felt so great, seeing heaven on earth worth the trip and the ride to get there.

Arrived at Malang after 4 hours of car ride, we had lunch Nasi Buk (madura’s rice with meat and vegetables and all kind) which also good one but I forgot the name, got to our hotel and took shower. It was around 1pm, with our tired and happy body, we took a deep long nap until around 5pm. 

At 7.30 pm my aunt and her husband pick us up at the hotel and took us dinner in Yogyakarta Restaurant (food here were great too) oh and I forget one culinary menu I like to order here in Malang: Sambel Mangga, (shredded mango with chilly and shrimp paste, even better with Petis like the one I had in Bethania Cafe, Batu). Then they took us to Batu again, explore the night in Batu mountain hill drinking warm milk. Then we got back to our hotel around 11pm to take a good night sleep after this long long long and wonderful day.

Malang trip 27-29 April 2012 Part 1: Malang, Batu and Singasari

One of the wonderful thing that has happen on this APRIL 2012 is this trip: MALANG-BROMO on 27th-29th.  I’m thinking of splitting the journey day by day . This is the journey on day 1. 

Well, before that, I went there with my other 2 beautiful ladies from the office Mba Yumai and Mba Dian. It’s been a sweet short escape for the 3 of us. Malang, on the east part of Java, I never know what to expect from this city, and what kind of traveling I’m getting into but after all the arrangement and the planning we finally get there and I’am willing to go back and to explore more of Malang.

DAY 1:

It’s 5 am in the morning, the 3 of us already in the cab driving us to the airport for the 7am flight to malang. Hhhooaamm, delayed for half an hour because of the fog. Finally at 9 am, touch down Malang. We met our driver/guide on the airport. Since we were hungry so we ask him to take us to a local famous place and he took us to eat Rawon. Rawon itself is not an unusual Indonesian Culinary, but what unusual is that they not only serve the common original Rawon (with diced cutter meat) they also have the cow kneel Rawon (Rawon dengkul) yup yup yup. As a girl who loves culinary I ordered this Rawon. When it gets to our table, I was so shock of the large portion, but I finished anyway. The Meat Rawon is also sooo yyuummyy. The meat was so tender it just melt once we put in to our mouth. Well, only about an hour in Malang, already indulged by the culinary. 

 

Rawon Nguling, this is the cow kneel, which also so tender, and turns out supposed to be served for 2 people (and I finished them myself, damn!). You can easily found Rawon in Jakarta, but not this delicious one.

Three ladies hungry for food and excitement in Malang.

From the City of Malang, we went to the nearby city, where the tourism are, called BATU, its only about one hour. We go directly to thewaterfall, Coban Rondo. I like this waterfall because we don’t have to do a long hike to get there. 

We get back in the car and looking for lunch. We went to Bethania Cafe. It’s a nice cafe in interior and designed so exotis and the food are delicious too. Next trip of the day is Agrowisata, we went to a large fruit garden to walk around and pick the fruits right from the stems, which famous with picking Apple. Unfortunately the apple tree was not ready to be picked so we only picked guava and strawberry. But they serve free apple for us too.

From Batu, we directly go back to Malang then heading to my Aunt’s house in Singasari. Singasari temple was 5 minutes from her house, but unfortunately it was around 8 pm and dark so we can’t take any good picture. I’t was a long day, we stay at my aunt’s place to take a couple of hours sleep before we continue our journey to the Main event: BROMO.

April 1st, 2012

Why Should A Single Gal Shoot A Moving Target?

In this quarter fabulous f-in life, more and more wedding invitation comes from my friends. Everytime I open Facebook the timeline fills with wedding pictures weather its from the brides or from the bridesmaid. And the most uncomfortable annoying habit in the culture where I live in is the straight forward question from some people we just met, a stranger, acquaintance, parent’s friend’s or a family member and all other people that are not personally related or close, asked “When you will be married?”, “When is your target to get married?”. Believe me, i would answer if I knew.

But the most annoying thing is that why people treat marriage as a project to accomplished? Why should I put a target on when I should be married and if I do have a timeline for it, why would I share this personal thought of mine to you people just to fulfill your curiosity which also not helping in finding me a husband?? When and who started this kind of topic to brought up in casual conversation?

Currently, as for me, asking and wanting to know someone’s target to get married (unless it’s in a serious personal and private conversation) is just ridiculously undermined the idea of marriage. Don’t get me wrong, I believe in the idea of marriage. But asking it as if some kind of a project is just shallow! We are not young girl anymore who still viewed marriage just in a wedding dream. I want to have a lifetime vow with my future special someone not to fulfill my target date but to have that future special someone as my life partner who somehow complete and commit till the end of time.

Honestly I do have a target years to get married. I wanted to get married at the age of 23/24. But guess what people, I’m older now and the wedding still not happen! Instead of having a serious relationship at that age, I broke up and galavanting instead. And why did I do that? I grew up and stop being a little girl who only wants to accomplished my target age of marriage. The day I decided to start living single life again is the day when not only the relationship fell apart but it’s when my whole life that I have been planned also shattered. Because at the end I’m choosing to have a partner that I want to commit for the rest of my life even if such sacrifice of time and effort are needed.

If I do find a candidate for the special person, then I want to decide the target date based on both of our agreement or discussion or future vision and plan ahead. This is why I said shooting a moving target. It may or may not happen the way we wanted because somehow universe can shift to any direction it wanted you to go no matter how strong you hold on to anything just to make things work. Universe can tore them apart, make a little shift, crossing your path with another person instead, create a stream of changes or even makes it all even better and worthier. And don’t get me wrong, it doesn’t mean that once I met someone then I would turn to bride freak who terrorized that poor guy for setting a targeted time. But it also does not mean that I’m the type of a poor gal who willing to get stranded along in indefinite uncertainty relationship with an a’hole. 

Knowing you have moving target able to give more perspective and prevent from making decision based on all the wrong reasons. At the end we all pursuing for our happiness. Will completing target age gives a lifetime happiness or is it only a temporary happiness that may pass away once you realized it’s all standing in a wrong reasons. Forwarding the quantity of age as imaginary fix target to shoot just creating wrong reasons (which I have been through before) such as “I’m too old/lazy/tired to start again”, ” I don’t want to waste my XX years of relationship”, “He’s the only one who would want to be with me”, “Better to have someone than to live single”, “Not ready to step outside the comfort zone”, etc, etc. What I want to forward is the quality ” I choose to be with him because he’s worth every of my time, all of me and all of my sacrifices ahead”

So, for me instead of creating an imaginary fix target to shoot in blind as in targeted age to get married, I choose to have have a moving target to shoot instead. And what if those annoying question comes up from those annoying people? OOhhh help me GOD!!!

March 18th, 2012
We are undercover passion on the run
Chasing love up against the sun
We are strangers by day, lovers by night
Knowing it’s so wrong, but feeling so right
“Stevie Wonder”
March 14th, 2012

2012 Wish List

When I was looking over of my un posted draftI found this article that I turns out not yet posted it. Posting this will be fun.

It’s almost the end of the year 2011, it means time to recapture what’s been happening during this year and making wish list for 2012. What I have learn so far, life is unexpectedly surprising. I always have wish list every year. At the end of the year it’s fun to know which from those list come true, which not, and what happened outside the list or it was on the previous’s wish list that happen this year.

The wish list that come true during my 2011 are:

1. Getting myself in a Multinational Corporation

2. Trip to Karimun Jawa

3. Adding list of my investment asset into my portfolio

4. Get a new Laptop

Wish list for 2012:

1. Ending my project successfully in the beginning of January.

2. Finding love again

3. Adding another list of investment asset into my portfolio

4. Komodo Sailing Trip

5. Derawan Island

6. Jailolo Festival at Halmahera

7. Small Business

8. Getting a raise

(via maluna)

March 13th, 2012
Us girls we are so magical,
Soft skin, red lips, so kissable.
Hard to resist, so touchable.
Too good to deny it.
Ain’t no big deal, it’s innocent.
(Miss Perry)